{"id":5297,"date":"2012-07-05T22:17:42","date_gmt":"2012-07-06T03:17:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/?p=5297"},"modified":"2012-07-05T22:17:42","modified_gmt":"2012-07-06T03:17:42","slug":"disappearing-eharmony-members","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/?p=5297","title":{"rendered":"Disappearing eHarmony Members!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>While I think that the eHarmony (dating) web site does a good job, it does have its quirks.\u00a0 And, some of these quirks drive me absolutely crazy.\u00a0 One of the most annoying is the disappearing members.<\/p>\n<p>Every now and then, an individual, who has been posted to my account, will mysteriously disappear!\u00a0 At first, I thought that I was just imagining that the person ever existed.\u00a0 After all, I get about 2,000 posts a year from eHarmony so it would be easy to loose track of someone.\u00a0 But, after the first few times, I have come to realize that eHarmony is doing something with these people.<\/p>\n<p>Normally, if some one doesn&#8217;t like the match with me, they will simply close the account.\u00a0 I, in turn, will get a notice that they have close their account with me.\u00a0 I then close my account with them and we are both history.<\/p>\n<p>But, for these mystery accounts, eHarmony doesn&#8217;t tell me that the account is &#8220;closed&#8221;.\u00a0 Rather, they tell me that the account is &#8220;no longer available&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>This drives me crazy since I am never sure if the person has disappeared or if they never existed in the first place!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>While I think that the eHarmony (dating) web site does a good job, it does have its quirks.\u00a0 And, some of these quirks drive me absolutely crazy.\u00a0 One of the most annoying is the disappearing members. Every now and then, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/?p=5297\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5297","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p20gJN-1nr","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5297","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5297"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5297\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5309,"href":"https:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5297\/revisions\/5309"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5297"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5297"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nedandkathyswift.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5297"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}